Episode 129

Married to a High Achiever (Spoiler: It's Me): This One's For the Women Who Expect Everyone to Think Like Them

Picture being married to someone who thinks 10 steps ahead, has standards stuck in their head (not on paper), assumes everyone should just know how to do things their way, and gets frustrated when people don't meet expectations they never articulated. Now, picture that person is you.

In this episode of Beyond the Bombshell, Michelle breaks down the annual Easter spat (it wasn't about the eggs, it was about the six other things from the past six weeks), why she can't build a policy and procedures manual for home life, and the impossible dynamic of being business partners with your spouse when you're opposites. From randomly stuffing plastic eggs with money to going to bed with an invisible shield between them, this is the reality of high standards, poor communication, and two people who both think the other is the problem. Plus, their one life hack: the 6 AM coffee talk after sleeping on it.

Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome & Being Married to an Overachiever

03:15 The Easter Egg Fight

07:42 When Your Brain Goes Down the Spiral

11:28 Who's to Blame? (Both of Us)

14:53 Business Partners + Life Partners = Chaos

18:07 The Invisible Shield Bedtime Routine

21:34 Our Life Hack: Morning Coffee Debrief

24:19 Why Opposites Attract (And Drive Each Other Crazy)

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Michelle Stokes

Meet Michelle Stokes, the ultimate multitasking dynamo! As a wife and mother, she knows a thing or two about balancing the chaos of everyday life. But that's not all—Michelle is also a passionate advocate for local women in business, supporting and cheering them on every step of the way. Born and raised on Fogo Island, she brings a vibrant bay-girl energy to everything she does.

Michelle is a visionary & empire builder owning multiple businesses & investment properties. As the co-owner of @sold.by.stokes, she works hard to make a difference and provide opportunities to agents, staff & clients. With a background in nursing, she knows the importance of building trust with clients, a value she carries into her real estate career.

When she's not working, Michelle loves walking, hiking, and exploring new destinations. Her zest for life is contagious, keeping us engaged on social media and inspired to chase our own adventures.

Join Michelle on this fun and relatable journey as she shares insights on fashion, stunning home designs, motherhood, and the excitement of changing careers. Get ready to put your needs first and embrace a life filled with joy, style, and endless possibilities with Michelle Stokes as your guide.